Being comfortable without effort / words & illustratrations by Soo-hyun Kim ; translation by Ma. Kristina Carla Rico and Kyung-nim Bae.

Soo-hyun Kim
Earnest but not serious.
Bubbly but not shallow.
She loved drawing and major in design in college.
after exploring liberal arts and design, she now writes and illustrates books.
Her publications include I Decided to Live as Me.

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"What if you are not beautiful? What if you are not special?
You are complete as you are.
And our life is always precious."
The book that will teach you that the key to forming relationships with others is to first form a loving relationship with yourself, Being Comfortable Without Effort, written and illustrated by Kim Soo Hyun, the sequel to the best selling title, I Decided To Live As Me, is now available in English.

Ch. 1: Be strong without being swayed -- Keeping your self-respect -- Can happiness also be certified? -- You don't need to be fun -- Personal taste to dream -- A hater's default value -- The skill of letting it slide -- Don't be swayed by verbal diarrhea -- My life is not extraordinary but precious -- Let us owe our life too -- Loneliness for each of us -- Ch. 2: Being comfortable without effort -- Living as me -- Don't try to be someone else -- Have the courage to disappoint -- Let's save energy for another day -- It's okay not to be an Inssa -- There's no such thing as free lunch -- The golden rule of relationship -- As long as I'm not tired -- Restoration of basic trust -- Bearing the everyday life -- Ch. 3: Be respectful, not hysterical -- Living with others -- Be generous to petty jerks -- Distinguishing Mr. nice guy from a pushover -- Delusion that you know what they feel -- Discomfort is uncomfortable -- By all means, don't step on crap -- Change at least after three outs -- You can't evaluate my worth -- The consolation of indifference -- Even late apologies are good -- How to minimize loss -- Ch. 4: Don't be nervous, be brave -- Living with confidence -- Enduring doesn't always pay off -- Even benefits may be altered -- Earning money isn't dirty and cheap -- Ban anxiety -- Don't mind them -- Lighten your heart -- Try what you want to try -- Don't blame the past for everything -- Don't be anxious -- Ch. 5: Be harmonious without enduring -- Expressing your mind language -- Build a speed hump against rudeness -- Do I really have to say it? -- Ask how they feel -- You won't know someone without expressing yourself -- Create your own anger surveillance -- Language that protects me -- Even speaking needs a warm up -- Let us end the relay race of oppression -- How to end a fight -- Ch. 6: Affection over apathy -- Learning to love -- Say no burnout -- The skill to reconcile -- A mother's fundamental value -- Sow seeds of relationship -- Be affectionate toward yourself -- My shining dark past -- Live no matter what -- A little warmer, a little colder -- Aren't we all humans? -- Even hapiness requires effort -- Epilogue : Let us love each other -- Thanks to

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